Friday, September 24, 2010
In the Jungle :)
My ultimate favorite song since I was waaaaay little!! I came across it again today :)
Wednesday, September 22, 2010
Tattoo
I have decided on finally getting a Tattoo in the near future on my ankle. I am waaay excited and now just need to decide what I want to do. I will end up choosing either way but I am curious what every one thinks, which should I do? The flowers will also have a butterfly design along with it.
A New Beginning
So I have decided to create my own blog, however let me forwarn you advance that I am HORRIBLE at updating!!! So as a first start a little update on the changes I have made in my life.
First: I have filed Bankruptcy with Brock. We have way to much debt that we are behind on to get caught up. Funny how we may have been bad off but one thing comes up and it makes you behind on everything!! Since the past year our credit has already dropped significantly. We went from Good credit (High dept to income but really good credit) to Poor credit in one year. After trying multiple arrangements including debt settlement and a lawsuit later I made the decision to file. In the long run it will actually take less time to rebuild my credit in the next 10 years bankruptcy stays listed then it would have to do the debt settlement. It will be the fastest and easiest way to get back on track. I WILL Not make the same mistakes I have since getting out of high school.
Second: Brock and I are getting a divorce. This was a very hard decision and choice I made, and every now and then I second guess if it was the right choice. However I do think it is for the best. There are so many differences and issues that I do not see how we can get past them and move forward. We are at different stages in life, and each want different things. I am not going to go through all the issues as its not something that everyone needs to know. I do care about Brock alot as a friendship and I want him to be happy, but I need to figure out what I want as well and how I can be happy also. The last thing in the world I would have wanted was to hurt him but with the choice I made there was no way around it. I just hope that he can move on quickly and be happy soon. I wish him all the luck and hope he can achieve what he wants in life.
Third: I have moved back in with my parents. This was not an easy choice in the least. I get along so well with my family while not living there. It has taken Soooooo long to build the relationship I have with everyone, parents and brothers. Less fighting and a heck of alot more bonding. I was nervous this would cause issues. However my mom talked me into it and so far it has been fine. I need to work with Spritz so he will be okay and more diciplined and not causing issues. But as long as I do my portion of the work around the house, take care of my dog, and try to let them know if I am going to be home for dinner things will be fine. I have been able to spend alot more time with my brother Boe which has been great. I plan on living with them for 6-8 months to save up some money for a savings account and pay off my school bill. Then I will look at getting a one bedroom apartment. Any extra money that I get will be going into savings as well, I have it worked out where I can still save alot per month and have some spending money to use if I need it.
First: I have filed Bankruptcy with Brock. We have way to much debt that we are behind on to get caught up. Funny how we may have been bad off but one thing comes up and it makes you behind on everything!! Since the past year our credit has already dropped significantly. We went from Good credit (High dept to income but really good credit) to Poor credit in one year. After trying multiple arrangements including debt settlement and a lawsuit later I made the decision to file. In the long run it will actually take less time to rebuild my credit in the next 10 years bankruptcy stays listed then it would have to do the debt settlement. It will be the fastest and easiest way to get back on track. I WILL Not make the same mistakes I have since getting out of high school.
Second: Brock and I are getting a divorce. This was a very hard decision and choice I made, and every now and then I second guess if it was the right choice. However I do think it is for the best. There are so many differences and issues that I do not see how we can get past them and move forward. We are at different stages in life, and each want different things. I am not going to go through all the issues as its not something that everyone needs to know. I do care about Brock alot as a friendship and I want him to be happy, but I need to figure out what I want as well and how I can be happy also. The last thing in the world I would have wanted was to hurt him but with the choice I made there was no way around it. I just hope that he can move on quickly and be happy soon. I wish him all the luck and hope he can achieve what he wants in life.
Third: I have moved back in with my parents. This was not an easy choice in the least. I get along so well with my family while not living there. It has taken Soooooo long to build the relationship I have with everyone, parents and brothers. Less fighting and a heck of alot more bonding. I was nervous this would cause issues. However my mom talked me into it and so far it has been fine. I need to work with Spritz so he will be okay and more diciplined and not causing issues. But as long as I do my portion of the work around the house, take care of my dog, and try to let them know if I am going to be home for dinner things will be fine. I have been able to spend alot more time with my brother Boe which has been great. I plan on living with them for 6-8 months to save up some money for a savings account and pay off my school bill. Then I will look at getting a one bedroom apartment. Any extra money that I get will be going into savings as well, I have it worked out where I can still save alot per month and have some spending money to use if I need it.
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